It’s my birthday today! I’m turning the big three-oh.
Rather than approach this next decade with fear, I’ve just been thinking a lot about getting older. And how getting older will (or should) shape my behavior.
Some random things about turning 30 that have crossed my mind?
Spoiler alert, it’s nothing of any substance.
I’ve been thinking ultra-important things like, how much longer can I have long hair? At some point do my long locks start to be inappropriate? How much longer can I wear my ‘On Fleek’ Sweatshirt before I become that woman that people roll their eyes at? ‘What does she think, that she’s a teenager?” they will whisper amongst themselves.
Can I still wear black leggings in public? Side note, should anyone wear black leggings in public? That’s beside the point though. I have to admit, I wear black leggings on the regular. Now that I’m thirty, do I need to put my bum away and switch to harem pants? Are harem pants too young for me? Oh man.
As you can see, these are all very important thoughts.
Now I know that everything I mentioned above can be brushed away with the argument that everyone should be able to act and dress as they please. And I completely agree with that. But let’s be serious, the truth is that judgements are passed on older people who act younger than their stated age.
What are your thoughts? Are there things that become less appropriate as we get older? Am I just being ridiculous?
Here are some other things I’m loving…
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Men with unicorn hair.
Cats who are intent on interrupting their humans’ yoga practices.
Bratz dolls get a much-needed makeunder.
A trick for choosing wine based on what you like to eat.
This Saved By the Bell Reunion is everything.
Dennis the Menace grew up to be a hot marine biologist.
Dying of cuteness – red pandas have fun in the snow.
As if that wasn’t enough cuteness – a cat pets a baby lamb.
Incredible story – how an obese town lost 1 million pounds.
Happy Happy Birthday! I feel you on the long hair…I’ve slowly gone shorter and shorter each year into my late twenty’s and I’m like, do I have to get a mom-cut soon? The answer is no. Not yet anyways 🙂 And you can ABSOLUTELY wear black leggings in public. Always! Hope you have a wonderful birthday xo Lisa
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Thanks so much! Whoop! No mom cuts for us! 🙂
Never!!!
Happy Birthday Chica!!! I feel like milestone birthdays always make us feel like time is running out…I remember turning 20 and thinking I life was over. HAHAHA. Ridiculous. So I say, keep doing what you are doing and wearing what looks good! I love seeing super trendy cute women who are in their 40’s and 50’s. They are hot and I strive to be that one day!!
xx Jill
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Thanks so much Jill! I really hope I can age gracefully like those women you mention.
Happy Birthday! I started having those types of deep thoughts when I turned 30 (I’m now 31). I think you just feel out what YOU feel comfortable with. Sure there will be styles you won’t want to wear anymore, but if you do and feel comfortable in it just go for it. 30 is the new 25 after all 🙂 Oh and if you’re anything like me, people will still think you’re in your mid to late 20s well into your 30s.
Hi Diana – Hopefully my musings get deeper than wondering about long hair and leggings! 🙂 People definitely guess that I’m younger than I am and I’m hoping to maintain that with sunscreen and eye cream. 😀
Super happy birthday to you, Kelly! Yes, you can have long hair and wear leggings and be whatever you want to be at 30, or at any age. And something not on your list but should be? The fact that Full House is doing a new season and it will be based in San Francisco. Come on! 🙂
OMG Yes, FULLER HOUSE.
Hahahaha, is that really what they are calling it?
Yessss! I wasn’t allowed to watch TV growing up, so this will be my first Full House experience! I may need to try to get my hands on some old Full House reels!
Wait, what is this thing about black leggings? I wear them all the time. :/ Uh oh. Then again, I’ve been 30 something for a little while now. LOL
Haha, that makes two of us! I haven’t given them up in the last month I will tell you that!
Also HAPPY BIRTHDAYYYYYYY~!
Hahaha, thanks for all of your amazing comments! 🙂
Anytime! 🙂
Have you heard about the Fabulous Fashionistas? 😉
Happy happy birthday!
PS: I turned 30 6 months ago and I still wear black leggings all the time.
I haven’t, but I’m going to look into it! Thanks so much Len!
OMG, WHAT!? I just googled it and my mind is blown within a few seconds of watching it!
Happy Happy Birthday Kelly! Hope you have a wonderful day celebrating! I say go for what you feel comfortable with – I still wear black leggings 🙂
Awww, thanks so much Kelly! Such great advice!
You are amazing. Happy happy day to you. Your thoughts are so on fleek and to be honest I think we’ll continue to wonder about the answers for so many more years to come.
xx Katie
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Haha, you are ridiculous! Nice job working in on fleek – well played! 🙂
Happy Happy Birthday! Please don’t stop wearing black leggings or I’ll have to follow suit and I just bought news ones;) Plus they’re the most comfortable pants I own, amiright??
Youareright! 🙂 You are an extra classy lady with NEW black leggings. I should probably follow your lead as mine are all starting to pill.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! Haha lots of important factors to consider!! I am already thinking about 30 and I still have 3 more years to go. What’s encouraging is seeing other people in their 30s or olderwho still look and act young (in a good and adventurous way) and then I’m not afraid of aging anymore. Like you! Though you’re not very old yet. I love seeing 60-year olds in great shape and doing vigorous exercise that some of my 20 year-old friends wouldn’t try.
Thanks so much! Here’s to aging gracefully! 🙂
Happy Birthday Kelly! I wish you joy & peace and many more birthdays 🙂 I do think that there are subtle ways to make your wardrobe more sophisticated as you get older. We always have to be careful not to go overboard so as not to look way beyond our actual age. Maybe less leggings and more fitted pants–but not too many trousers 🙂
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Thanks so much! These are such wise thoughts. It’s funny you mention fitted pants, as there are so many more of these popping up in my wardrobe lately!
Happiest birthday! I say it’s yes to all the things, at all the ages. xo
Aww, thanks so much Carla!
Man I say wear and do whatever you want for as long as you want. And try not to get too upset when your Mom disagrees with every clothing choice you wear, saying you “still dress like a teenager”. Hey, It’s california style man. Wear ripped jeans all I want, pfth.
Happy belated! Today’s mine! 🙂 But i’m older 🙁 lol
Yay for being birthday buddies! You’re so trendy – I see ripped jeans everywhere these days!
Happy Birthday! I’m 33, live in SF, have long hair and wear leggings and don’t plan on changing anytime soon. =)
Hooray! Thanks so much Dominique – I bet you look great in them too!